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Feeling a twinge of jealousy now and then is human. The question is what you do with it: do you feel it, overthink it or act on it?
Answer thinking about your current or most recent relationship.
Psychologists Susan Pfeiffer and Paul Wong described jealousy in three dimensions: emotional (the hurt or anxiety you feel), cognitive (suspicious thoughts and doubts) and behavioral (checking, questioning, controlling).
Emotional jealousy is common and not necessarily harmful if you manage it. Behavioral jealousy is the one that most damages trust and, taken to the extreme, becomes control.
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